The RMP Code Of Honour
Whether it's a code of honour, a code of conduct or a code of ethics, It's all about a set of principles in which to conduct one's self within a framework.
At RMP we too have such a set. However, we are mindful of the assumptions and grey areas that can come with it.
Honour is a very subjective thing. For thousands of years, a great deal of pain, suffering and struggle has resulted from men acting from a sense of honour. An honour that they bought into. It was "their" truth. It does not mean it was the truth.
So we wanted to make sure that the RMP Code Of Honour was one that every man could relate to it, appreciate it for what it is and abide by them as best as his life would allow.
We at RMP also encourage you to create your own Code of honour so you are self governed from within.
Respect - Maintain an attitude of consideration for others. Regardless of how you've been raised, you are at a level of maturity to know that everyone is going through their own challenges and struggles. It is imperative that you see every one as a mirror being held up in front of you. We all reflect back aspect of one another. So respect everyone that comes into your world. In return you too will be respected.
Courage - The ability to do things which one finds frightening. This is about you letting go of the man that says you can't do it! With RMP you'll be encouraged to push through your comfort zones and create new possibilities for your life. On the other side of your fear is your freedom.
Benevolence: Disposition to do good – charitable kindness – an altruistic gift or act. As a member of RMP your role as a Remarkable Man is to share your gifts, talent and assistance to those in need. You will be required to give each month. What that is is your call. But it must leave you and the recipient feeling remarkable.
Self Responsibility - the state or fact of being responsible, answerable, or accountable for something within one's power, control, or management. RMP is your accountability container but in truth nothing can hold you accountable to anything but yourself. However, you will be required to take full responsibility for how you conduct yourself, and for the circumstances you find yourself in. Once you truly understand that you are responsible for your experiences...Yes all of them, Then you truly have control of your life.
Gratitude - readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness. Govern yourself as a man that has much to be grateful for. Be in gratitude for everything you have and are experiencing. A man that appreciates his life for what it is becomes an attraction magnet.
Strength - Your inner and outer strength is a measure of the effort you are putting in to your personal growth and development. As a man, you take a noble warrior attitude in all you do. With that, it is imperative that you take your physical health seriously, build your physical self to the full potential you deem remarkable to you. You are a protector, you are a provider, you are a man living on purpose. People rely on your strength in the good times and the bad times. You are committed to personal mastery to have the power to blast through any limitation.
Champions To Women - Regardless of your relationship status, how hurt your heart is or how much of a player you are, as a member of The Remarkable Man Project you are here to be a Champion to Women. This is not from a place of weakness or some subservient, feminist agenda. We are men, and as such we will be the best examples of what it means to be a man on fire.
When you step boldly into your authentic masculine power, your marriage, relationships and even your single life takes on an energy that says anything is possible.
Heroes To Children - If there ever was a more important role in a man’s life, it would be that of a father, guardian or mentor to a child regardless of age.
It does not matter if you are a dad or not. The world needs Remarkable Men to step up and play a bigger game in the lives of the kids we are so blessed to have in our care.
The impact you can have in shaping, guiding and loving those that look up to you will shape their future and stay with them the rest of their lives. It can be the most rewarding gift on the planet.
However, that role is not always an easy one. In fact, it can be the most challenging, frustrating and heart breaking roles you’ll ever deal with. You may be feeling that now.
As men, you need to step up your role and be the best version of yourself you can be so that children and young adults understand and are inspired by what it means to truly be a Remarkable Man.
Brothers To Each Other - If we had to pick where the biggest impact The Remarkable Man Project has it would come down to the core philosophy of being Brothers to Each Other. That’s right! This maxim is what most men long for.
The personal journey for most men is a very isolated and lonely one. We keep so much of who we really are inside. Often the fear of being shamed, put-down or being misunderstood is too great to take a chance of going to core with someone. Even with a best friend or spouse.
As a brother in The Remarkable Man Project you are held to a higher standard as to what it means to be a friend, a confidant and as brothers to one another.
Usually when we hear the words, “I’ve got your back.” in most cases it was usually in a sports scenario or hanging with the boys at the pub when things got dicy. However, to truly mean it through and through when a brother is in the proverbial shit of his life, that’s when it really counts.
Loyalty - An unwavering commitment and devotion to a cause. The cause is your personal journey and that of the brothers in RMP that walk beside you. This is a declaration to hold yourself to a higher standard of what it means to be a remarkable man in all you do. As a member in RMP you will do what you say and say what you do. This is a brotherhood like no other and loyalty to your brothers is imperative for what is to be achieved. You will be entrusted to use the utmost in discretion and keep what is shared with your brothers and within the project confidential and sacred.